I think everyone likes to be pursued every now and then. But I don't mind being the one to pursue. Tho, being inexperienced, I pursued someone I shouldn't have. I didn't get to know him well enough so of course I saw potential. For whatever reason, he backed up immediately and good thing, he should have. Not only did he turn out to be pyscho, he wasn't ready AT ALL. His true colors were icky, too. I got my first glimpse that this wasn't gonna be easy. I think we should all be flexible in our game, at least be willing to put yourself out there cuz you may have to with certain people. But you won't know what role to play until you've gotten to know the person. It depends on other things besides personality, like where they are in life and where you are in life.