focusivity = extremely goal oriented esp when related to spiritual goals singlenessity = chosing to remain single in pursuit of spiritual goals

whew girl..it's too early tryin to sound those words out. or maybe I'm just dense.

say it with me: "focus-siv-ity" and "singleness-ity"

ok focus-ivity singleness-ity focus-ivity singleness-ivity ok got it. and good lookin' out cuz I was looking for words to convey those situations.

yeah...too often the ppl who are single are martyrs for the cause instead of owning it...you know who i mean...those never been married 40+ ppl who really don't want to be single but are making the...