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originalsnob originalsnobOG 2004

I've heard of this...one sister and her good friend decided if neither was married by a certain age, why not take the plunge together.

In my opinion not the brightest idea.

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

not at all...who wants to be second best? "oh i couldnt find anyone i really liked so youll do"?!

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

kind of like that movie my best friends wedding

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

if you cant be with the one you love
love the one your with

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003

that sounds like an "i like you but i'm not gutsy enough to say it so how about i tell you a few years from now" situation...

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

Well I didn't really mean that exactly...I mean like you're friends with a guy for a while, maybe he likes you but you're not sure. Maybe you like him but you're not sure. If you don't drop any hints because you're content at the moment does the guy tend to just say "Well if we're not gonna go for it then, that's it. We'll just continue to be friends forever and nothing more."? This is one guy's opinion and I'm trying to discern if it's universal.

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