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thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

i dont think there should be. But my take anyway, is that if you are becoming close to somebody of the opposite sex, its tough to "just be friends"

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003

unless they are insane or ugly. Then it would tough for them to be friends with you because you are so hot...

originalsnob originalsnobOG 2004

Wow I read this and thought it said insanely ugly.

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

i disagree, you could have a buncha friends that are girls, its just moving to the point of kicking it to the next level. There are obvious bounderies that you would have like any other kind of relationship.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

but when the person is of the opposite sex, there's always that possibility that someday something potentially COULD happen. that's not there with a friend of the same sex (hopefully)

also, one person in this platonic relationship might start to feel one way and the other may not...

or the girl could just be evil and change her mind every single second about what she wants

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003

i think the latter supercedes the former.

malibu malibuOG 2001

i defer on this. there are quite a few boys that i have known since i was 7. and we are all really close but neither i nor them have ever developed different feelings for eachother other than friendly feelings. other people can give you odd motives, but i truly know that our realtionshiops are just that of big brother, lil sister. couldnt be anything more.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

it's different when you've known somebody since you were little, usually

malibu malibuOG 2001

yeah but even newer guy friends. ya cant just say that they cant be friends because it depends on what each person wants. you may think of just being friends but they aren't.
also, other people have become weird around other sthat they had grown up aroiund. differnet people, different perspecitves.

flomojopoanode flomojopoanodeFounder

It's all based on the people involved.

When you're as outRAGEously handsome as MK, it's hard for any girl to be JUST FRIENDS with him.

malibu malibuOG 2001

hahaha. the thought that you may have actually made that comment and been serious put me in laughing. haha.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Say it with me-- Jesse Hughes lights my fire.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

hahaha

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

hahahaha whooooa. what's this? hmm....

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

It's a game. We had to take a guy's name that we've known for a loooong time and view as just a friend (and could never possibly view otherwise) and admit our undying love and lust for him.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Example:
Brad Bell is sooooooo hott!!

[]It has more of a kick when you say it out loud[]

malibu malibuOG 2001

and it wasnt just that. it was like brad bell is so hott that i want to take all his hair and make myself a coat for warmth and to smell like him when not around. hahahaha., such ghey stuff. hysterical in my opinon though.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

ugh, lol... he does have the austin powers chest hair going on

malibu malibuOG 2001

its not just austin powers. its much more like chewbacca, the wookie. fully covering hair all over his body.

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

hahahaha that is so funny. i don't think i would ever be able to play that game. i couldn't even bring myself to jokingly say that about some of my long time guy friends. i would gag

malibu malibuOG 2001

hahhahahah i totally forgot about that game!!!! we could never say it without breaking into hysterics. did you ever do it right? jesse hughes blah blah blah. great game. it still is really funny.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

I am actually very good at this game!

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

isn't it better to be "just friends" with that person than nothing at all?

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

sometimes that's an impossibility

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

thats why matt keeps his distance from me, he told me it would hurt to much to hang out ... i dunno... hes got problems...

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

mike... you are literally a fag

literally. like you literally want to meet other gays and literally do gay things with them

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

hahahaha, the word literally totally makes me think mike is gay. perfect.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

so his marriage was jsut a cover up??? tsk tsk tsk

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

i LITERALLY find this comment soo funny, hahahahahahha

i mod it wishful thinking... sorry my limp wristed friend... dont swing like that.

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