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socalgal socalgalOG 2003

When i think of "crush" i just think it's someone who i find attractive and I KNOW i do not want a relationship with that person. you know how many crushes i have here at work alone? LOL makes the day oh so interesting.

BUT when you're seriously interested in the person, i agree in not calling it a crush because you want to get to know this person on a deeper level.

tinser tinserOG 2002

yeah, this is exactly what i think. if a person is cute, but thats your only basis...then its a crush.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Exactly!! You can have crushes and they don't mean anything save maybe an appreciation for someone's appearance and personality but not them as a person overall. Like..you'd never consider seriously dating them -ever-.

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

Well that's precisely it-when I tell her I may be considering someone and she says "aww, you have a crush!" I'm like, "Nonono." lol

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

tell your mom when you're interested in a particular brother, it's coming from your heart not your horomones. LOL

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

LOL she won't believe me! haha

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