might it also depend on the kind of crying? for example:
sweetly tearing up over sentiment
slient frustration with tears streaming down your face
the screaming boo hoo with snot streaming down your face
very good points.
thanks. i was thinking i could see ugly cry scaring some guys off momentarily, just bc of pure gross factor. but there have been times ive seen that shining eyes tear up (like at a wedding) and thats beautiful.