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papichulo papichuloOG 2004

heres my question/questions. How come when ur my age (17 and madly in love with SunShyne..cuz she can call me her baby boy, and i can call her my babygirl..so we can just spend some time, so she can be my sunshine), EVERYTIME u say hi to a girl thats 16 and under...she HAS to like you and fall in love, even if you barely talk to her. HOW COME?!?! How come then all u hear is..."you're leading them on..you're leading them on..." Well wait i know why..cuz shes 16 and under. But then how can i make her NOT like me without being toooo much of a jerk? Cuz for some reason, being a jerk seems to make them like ya more. whyyyyyyy. ladies...think back to ur younger days and figure this one out for me!

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

youre a mess! ok i think its wholly appropriate for a girl under 16 to be crushin on you. i would recommend it bc i dont think youre a heartbreaker. goodness knows these girls are going to be crushin on somebody. but are we talking that shes letting you know and wants something to be done about it? bc you can just let her know thats not going to happen bc youve got goals and a time line or whatever. i also dont think that if shes revealed her feelings its a good idea to go on with the level of friendship thats engendered said feelings. you dont want to torture her. or do you?

papichulo papichuloOG 2004

nah of course i dun wanna hurt her. but its not her..its THEM. like almost every other one. its crazy cuz even off the bat if im not super-friendly it still happens. i mean id rather not have to deal wit it to begin wit so that i dont have to worry bout hurting anyone, but it seems like they always make it go to that level and start liking me. then im stuck cuz i dun wanna hurt them, u kno wha i mean?

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

i get it frankies in high demand. and whats wrong with that?! just make your position clear. when i was your age i used to tell fellas that i wasnt interested in dating and if they wanted to stay in touch with me anyways, theyd have to get past my dad. that used to squash it. i guess its harder for guys.

papichulo papichuloOG 2004

haha true. that brings back memories. jewy mentioned ur dad when me and her first became good friends, and how he hates every guy ever. i used to be in fear of the guy BUT...i got his respect! thats right...cuz im good like that.

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

parental authority only works if you want to live in line with it. if i had said i hate that my dad is strict, it wouldnt have worked. i said i respect my dads views and i wont disobey him.

does that translate to anything that works for you?

papichulo papichuloOG 2004

lol yea it works...i get wha ur saying

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

stop being so sexy

papichulo papichuloOG 2004

they like my feet. thats what it is. they find them attractive

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