our DO was so funny at the circuit assembly. he said: young sisters, you may be thinking you want to pioneer and do all you can for JH and you think when you meet this nice looking brother you can meet your goals together so you get married and then you find out all he wants is a pickup with a buncha dogs in the back.
i almost forgot the flip side: young brothers, you may want to go to bether or become a missionary and you meet a pretty sister and think you can meet your goals together so you get married and then she tells you, i want to have babies and live close to my momma!