What WE notice...
by Ok this is pretty much a run-off of Summer's post in "Questions", but shes got such a good point, we should make ti a thread. Brian pretty much doesnt like ANYTHING on a girl except her bare skin...which make sense...BUT...this thread is to let everyone know what YOU notice on a girl...hair,eyes,smile,make-up...ect.
Ill start...from the things i notice the most.
1. hair
2. eyes
3. teeth/smile
4. style (i like girls that can dress...that kno how to match...doesnt always matter what style, as long as they wear it well)
5. jewelry/accessories (earings...if the earings match the outfit it looks hot...i LOVE hoops..lol sorry brian. belts...belts can look so good when they're matching right...
things i dont care that much about
i dont dislike alotta stuff...but make-up...im not big on it. cuz as im sure most would agree...u shouldnt be wearing a mask to cover ur real face...make-up doesnt make beauty. in my mind anyway.
so anybody got their picks on wha they like?
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1) Smile
2) Hair
3) Eyes
4) Facial Structure (Not sure how to say this. Basically I usually like girls with rounder faces.)
5) ...
1) Eyes
2) Legs
3) Smile
4) Abs (if any)
ok so do you think Pink has HOT looking abs?
i think you do
Not really, abs werent on the list until I met a sister with abs that were perfect, not too toned, but enough to see them.... Im still in amazement and the funny thing is, she doesnt even work out...
I actually think girls look best when they have a slight belly. Really athletic or skinny girls have never really done it for me.
girls should have that "softness" to them. like they can be athletic but not "guyish" ya know.
but yeah i'm in awe when a girl has good abs a la gwen stefani, fergi....but chicks like pink...ewww.
Eyes are high up on my list, too.
For me, its all about shoulders!
girls shoulders and collarbones. yummy.
oh yeah, for me it's shoulders and backs. I love a nice strong "surfer" back...oooh and hands.
i notice i haven't seen frank in a while...
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yeah....
bewbs
Interestingly enough I was just talking about this with someone yesterday and they were saying they really pay attention to hair and to me that's kind of silly because hair you can change. I mean you can get a new hairstyle you can dye your hair so to me hair doesn't make much difference. I just find it interesting how different people look at things differently when it comes to stuff like this.
isn't it true though that guys dig long hair on a girl?
i dont speak for everyone, but i LOVE long hair... altho... sometimes girls look really cute with shorter hair... ie Angelina....
well yeah, but not many girls can pull off short short hair like her.
true... i dunno, we have a sister in our hall, Nikki has somewhat shorter hair, and like it on her, looks good!
she's of the few who can probably pull off short hair.
if a girl HAS long hair and you used to it, and then cut it off... i think that messes it up to... cause i know i cant ever get used to it....
NIKKI!!!!!!!Yeah the longest I remember Nikki's (growing up) hair is like barely shoulder length, Kelly (her sister) had the long thick crazy 80's hair.
nikkis new hairstyle reminds me of the bad girl (nina) from season one of 24
lol, really? I gots ta see this!
I don't know if it's so much that they can't pull if as it just a matter of them getting the right cut for them. It's not for everyone but I think most girls would look cute with short hair.
Well I think that depends on the guy, though I would say from the guys I've talked to most seem to, me personally length never really mattered.
yeah you just want a girl who will be a jerk to you regardless of hair length. oh yes, i went there :P
That is sooooo messed up!!!! And so not true!!!! :-P
You need a nice smack which I will give you thursday! :-P
bah, go all out, make it a MEAN smack...
You will be happy about recent events.
oh really? do tell...
yes do tell do tell....
Well aren't we nosy mike. :-P
Not sure I should since you did go there. :-P
dude, you're such a chick
um, yeah, in real life he is like one of the least chick-like guys i know. except when he's being a drama queen :) j/k
nu uh... hes got long hair....
you've got long leg hair, does that make you an ape?
im probably the least hairy italian you know....
nah, he's got really short hair. like sinead o'conner.
sinead o rebellion....
shock me shock me shock me with that deviant behavior
Love it! "You get smarter the shorter your hair gets, so it's probably a good idea you went with that!" "With your ever-growing collection of flesh-mutilating appendages and your new neo-nazi bootcamp makeover, the boys will come a'runnin!"
"And you get smarter the shorter your skirt gets"
I know I do. A girl's hotness directly varies with length of hair.
so is the attractiveness w/length? or style of hair?
well, I LOVE long hair. Esp.curly long hair. But once upon a time there was a girl who stole my heart, and was everything I was looking for. She had medium length hair in a halo of curls.
amen hermano
I used to think I did, but I've met some beautiful sisters with short hair, so I don't really think it matters. As long as it's not cut so that they look like a boy it can look good.
look at aeon flux...she's got short hair, and she's slammin'
lol
this gonna sound funny, but hair isn't a big, big deal to me. this is gonna sound funny too, but i LOVE short hair on girls. on the right girl it's a beautiful and delicious thing. if it frames the face well and accentuates a nice neck--then WHOOO!
i dunno all the guys i know always say girls need to have long hair. but sometimes i really wish i could shave all my hair off and have it buzzed. i think it would look really cool for a while. but i dont know if it would be acceptable.
yeah if i had the perfect face (like sinead or drew barrymore) i'd def wear it SUPER short. not many chicks can get away with TOO SHORT hair....but if i had the face i'd def do it.
I think I'm gonna cut all my hair off again.
do it
Among other things, I notice voice.
A girl's voice can tell me quickly whether we'll even stay friends.
Does that sound stupid? I don't mean like...a girl's voice telling me "I do (or do not) want to be your friend". I mean, certain voices are attractive to me, and others are repulsive. I notice voice, and ways of speaking.
It doesn't sound stupid* but, a little suspect.
Do you mean if they have a certain tone (ex. edgy, irritated) when they're talking with you? I could understand that.
If you feel that you know them well enough to discern something significant from that tone otherwise...hmmm. As long as this isn't the sole criteria by which you're determining your relationships,lol.
*you don't say stupid things you just have your own perspective
no, before I can detect tones. The way a woman speaks, and the sound of her voice really effect me.
Does that mean you like my sexy comment-giving voice? ;)
lol. What?
Everyone always tells me that they like my voice when I'm commenting. Katie and I used to say it was my 900-operator voice.
hahahhaahha. Right. Gotcha.
know what. now that you have said this and i am thinking about listening to your comments, it is quite true.
the fact that you do have the sexy commenting voice i mean.
otherwise, when you answered at the meetings, she just completely ignored your comments. She treated them like a lot of rubbish.
This made me laugh so hard! It's true. When we get these sudden drops in our voice like "mmmm hmmm, you know that was smooth."
girls have different tones in their voices depends on who they're talking to.....(don't you agree ladies)
i have different tones.....like the "i'm fond of you" tone......"i wanna get my way" tone...."uh oh i'm in trouble" tone.....and the "feisty latina" tone. LOL
I totally understand what you mean. I've heard them all used. But I'm not talking about tones. Not really.
a voice.....is that not a tone?
I think voice is all encompassing. The overall. A broader scope than just tone. You may use tones of voice, but you still have your overall voice quality in each tone, which effects the way you speak. And that's what I notice.
do you mean if they sound ditzy or like a valley girl or if they have a more serious or jovial way of speaking which can indicate underlying personality traits?
lol!
Gina, remember? You were so valley (not ditzy) the other day on the phone for a couple seconds.
Nah, I don't mean that. But I don't like when people sound ditzy. That does turn me off.
Let me think of an example of what I'm talking about.
okay, I used to like this one girl, and she had a very unique, kinda soft, calming voice. It got slightly squeaky when she got excited, but not annoyingly so. I loved her voice. I loved her.
Before that, there have been girls who are attractive, but I didn't pursue, because their voice was annoying, too squeaky, too scratchy...whatever. But I'm usually attracted to girls that have either an ultra smooth voice, or girls with a slightly different voice--not a normal voice, but slightly sqeaky or scratchy.
Does this clear anything up?
gotcha
Hmmm, the ACTUAL voice? Well I dunno my voice comes out different ALL the time, and it means absolutely nothing.
oh yeah, when i hear my voice get a certain way, i know im in trouble.
There is this girl that has recently for some reason been a guest on this radio show for a local station, and her voice is SO ANNOYING everyone keeps calling the station and saying like how ugly she must be to have that voice. And she's sitting there saying "whatever, i'm hot!" and i don't know waht she looks like, but yeah that voice makes her sound like someone i would never be friends with.
This is something I've noticed but, don't know what to make of it:
Guys that have really dark circles under their eyes, or permanent bags, like they got decked in both eyes. It makes them look tired and rough ALL the time.
i have this! i dont know why but underneath my eyes are always surorunded in dark dark yellow circles no matter how much water i drink or sleep i get.
that's because you're 80% man.
that's because we're busy playing all night. Always.
cha! video games...
and the problem with that is????
no prob here. just clarifying, in case anyone thought different. although, todd might be playing music, i suppose.
OR he could be out playing... um... who can place the most watchtowers with gas station attendents!!!!
lets ask him! todd, what are you busy playing all night?
youve noticed it but youre not sure if you find it attractive? personally, i dont find heroin chic in any derivation attractive. clean cut and well-groomed is much more visually pleasing. not metro well-groomed, just regular well groomed. you know: fresh hair cut, matching and pressed clothes, clean and smelling yummy, etc.
oh, so your the type of girl that doesnt find landscaper and constuction workers hot?
im not hatin on hard workers. im hatin on lazy bums.
hahahaha ohh ok... i guess im confused, lol
so am i, buddy, so am i
You're so adorable, you said YUMMY :P
Well I don't find it attractive but ... I can't decided to what degree it detracts from an otherwise potentially flawless hottie, maybe I'm just splitting hairs.
there is no such thing as a flawless hottie. even if he looks like one, trust...there is a flaw somewhere. 'sides flaws can be endearing.
nope.... Men are perfect... its a fact.
yeah. thats as much as a fact as your thinking that halo and wow come right after your need for food, clothing, shelter, and katie.
Well said.
a jacked up grin is the worst. BUT, (on the bright side) at least they have teeth right???
You know what I don't notice... when someone ignores you
i have the EXACT same requirements as you.
1)hair
2)eyes
3)smile
4)style.
though eyes and hair are interchangeable for guys. i prefer one type but if they have good eyes. everything is good.
first thing i notice is a cute face...a cute face is key
nice blue or green eyes are an added benefit...the kind that remind you of the ocean or the sky...beautiful
I have this friend...his name is Matt Kelly.....
and you'd THINK he was gay, but he swears he's not. sometimes, i believe him.
todd... you noticed!
This is a rare instance but I'll give it a shot.
It's kinda cool if you see the person all naturale or LET ME JUST SAY IT: They're lookin' ruff like, hard times but, seriously you still find them attractive. I like this, I don't mind the messy hair and the 5'o clock shadow, scruff can be cute.
oh yeah looking all rugged is HOT
oh like outback jack?
no, like the brawny paper towel guy!
LOL! if only there were a brawny ppr towel man...
Mr. Clean is a stone cold pimp.
mr clean is not scruffy! hes completely clean shaven.
there is a bro in my hall who reminds me of mr clean. well, sort of, we sat with him and his wife last sunday, lana - what do you think?
umm the black guy you thought was white??
-drool- where o' where is jack!?
I now realize when I said this it was bias.
Totally had someone in particular in mind, all these random guesses...grossing me out!
Think Paul Walker unshaved, no that's not who I was thinking of but, close enough. Don't ask I'll never tell ;-)
he's hot!!!
yeah, i know this is about me
livey saw me like two weeks ago when i hadn't shaved for two days, she was like DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN SON
LIAR!!! This is SOOO NOT about you Lauren pay no attention to Daniel's lies.
lauren has never clicked the forums in her life. it's nice. i can say whatever i want in here. hahaha. RULE. ty get me some corona
pride before a crash.
"yeah, i know this is about me" poor thing's in denial. You even dropped the d-bomb *shakes head* It's not ALWAYS about you DAN! Stop the insanity!
OMG MY PRECIOUS SCRUFF THREAD!!!!
Seeing how it's five years later I can safely state that this wasn't a passing fancy. SCRUFF still = FOXITUDE
that is all.
Eyes... right away the eyes... and not even a certain color... its just something about them. That and their laugh... VERY first things i notice about a girl.
their laugh can also be something you begin to love as you become more and more familiar with it. Sometimes if the very first thing you notice about them is their laugh, you have to wonder what they are laughing about. Are they laughing AT you? Then don't plan on getting to familiar with that laugh.
what if the guy is doing something funny or he's naturally funny and she's laughing at his funniness?? is that considered "laughing at him"??
oh, good call. But isn't that the "laughing with you" sort of laugh. I was talking about "laughing at you".
OH ok, i get it now.
you shouldnt worry about this. i doubt any girl would laugh AT you.
well, maybe not me--but I sort of doubt that...
But I was really talking about mike. Eh, mike?! :p
haha, thats why i know ALL about girls laughing... most of them DO laugh AT me... not with me, WOHOOOO
HAHAHAHA*points to Mike*HAHAHA
its true. i like to laugh at mike.
sok... someday i will show you little people....
do you really wanna get into size insults?
and on that day I'll get out of my wheel chair and do a little dance.
THANK YOU, i didnt think anyone got the reference
its odd. i dont really laugh the same all the time. it depends on if i'm sick, how funny i think the joke is and if i'm in a good mood. but one time a boy told me he loved my laugh and loved making me laugh and i felt special for days.
I think the face of a girl can say it all. Particularly the mouth part of the face...
but seriously i'm all about pretty faces. and big billowy lips :)
billowy? or pillowy? hehehehe.
either/or. i was gonna say luscious or something, but i thought that might be a little over the top hehe
luscious would've been good.
yeah, that would have been good. as long as he didn't say lascivious lips.
haha or succulent.
no, succulent is good. as long as it's not "suck, you lint!"
MMMMMM succulent *tongue hangs out of mouth*...reminds me of sweet juicy forbidden fruit, MANGOS!
MMMMMM succulent mangos *tongue hangs out of mouth*...OH sorry having a Homer moment :-P
HAHAHA i thought you were talking about "juicymango" LOL
thats so funny bc succulant reminds me of plants. like these:
they are called succulants.
This is also true
highly disturbing
that was another one that i thought about...
las·civ·i·ous adj.
1. Given to or expressing lust; lecherous.
2. Exciting sexual desires; salacious.
suc·cu·lent adj.
1. Full of juice or sap; juicy.
2. Botany. Having thick, fleshy, water-storing leaves or stems.
3. Highly interesting or enjoyable; delectable: a succulent bit of gossip.
Yeah, that.
Eyes. I am an absolute sucker for pretty eyes. And a genuine smile. I can always tell when a smile is genuine, because it shows in the eyes too. I love eyes.
Speaking of eyes, my absolute favorite combo is dark hair and blue eyes.....SOOOOOO beautiful.
ooo, dark hair, bright blue or green eyes---wow.
Exactly. :)
i notice the typical things. animal sttraction fully applies.
our DO was so funny at the circuit assembly. he said: young sisters, you may be thinking you want to pioneer and do all you can for JH and you think when you meet this nice looking brother you can meet your goals together so you get married and then you find out all he wants is a pickup with a buncha dogs in the back.
i almost forgot the flip side: young brothers, you may want to go to bether or become a missionary and you meet a pretty sister and think you can meet your goals together so you get married and then she tells you, i want to have babies and live close to my momma!
Smile. the smile, the smile, the smile...
nudity. yea wait...umm yea.. nudity, i definately notice nudity.
you wanna attract my attention.. hold up a sign that says " nudity "
You can be of any kind, doesn't matter to me really. I notice eyes & eye contact, smile, dress & grooming, hands, warmth & sincerity of speech is key.
i love if they are taller than 5'5. This is very important. I dont know if anyone's ever noticed this but Lauren never ventures beyond the musings/journals so I can say what I want and she'll never find out. this is perfect.
ya think???
i found it...
busted
Was this meant for what guys notice? Oh well... posture, walk, smile, eyes. Somewhat angular features in the face (ie nice jawline, stong bone structure).
I agree with SunShyne, definately appreciate a nice solid build & taller than me at least by a few inches.
looks: i notice guys that make eye contact and smile (this says they are confident) and guys that are neatly dressed (idk what this says, but i like it). body type: helps if they are taller than me (but thats pretty easy since im a shortie) and fairly solid. all bets are off if they are rude, refuse to dance and cant hold a conversation.
no offense but at this time in life, are you particular at all?
yes...very...since i can be cuz of the fact that im not falling for anyone
I notice lips, eyes then dimples (if they have them). Then after I notice a guys hands, I love strong hands.
hands are the first thing i look at