i've used some of these when getting to know someone new, not necessarily romantically, but in general: where did you grow up? who do you live with? what keeps you busy? what keeps you sane? w...

those are some good questions! my questions are sporatic. I'm VERY attentive to detail so i like to look at expressions also when asking questions.

i think a good question is "do you like the every-3-week haircut look", because i do