i've used some of these when getting to know someone new, not necessarily romantically, but in general: where did you grow up? who do you live with? what keeps you busy? what keeps you sane? w...
youre welcome! also, "what accomplishment are you most proud of?" and "what is your biggest regret?" are pretty revealing. of course, you prolly want to ask about goals and stuff.
well i understand but put yourself in the shoes of a man who feels he is in an interrogation room with the hot light on him and just wants to run.
I'm just saying re-word the question, because it is something you want to know.
you can ask all the questions at once, silly! i would be all: back off, nosey person!
I wouldn't wanna be interrogated either...to be honest, when the communication is good between two people, conversation flows and it has thus far but I just don't wanna miss anything important that I should have asked about. ya know?
I'm just giving advice about most guys. Personally i don't care. And any man who knows Summer would know she is way too sweet to actually be interrogating anyone and her intentions behind any questions are sincere. But most women can't pull it off...
you mean to say most women arent sincere in their inquiring?
wow i seem to be diggin a deeper hole here. So I'm going to put down my shovel, sit down, cross my legs indian style and wait for a ladder...
NO! please don't! I'm curious and wanna know what you're thinking.
i need to help pat here....most women seem like they're innterogating ones cause they want a mate. but not all. like he said only certain ones like summer can get away with it. but others it may seem like and interview/interrogation, as some of these girls are already planning the wedding upon the first meeting with the guys.
you were reading my mind exactly, thank you... :)
anytime hun =)
Ok, I see. But to bring it back, we're talking about two people who've agreed to "talk." Just lookin' for material.
even then you have to be careful. Guys don't like being put on the spot. THey can be SO wildly into you but interrogate them or do something lame, they can do a 180 and re-think about seeking to pursue you.
aww, patrick, that was really sweet! i think i am more likely to get in trouble the other way, bc im so interested in learning about ppl and genuinely concerned that things are going well for them, some guys may think im interested in a different way then i intend.