see the thing with a crush is this. the idea is much better than the actuality. i think that in your mind, atleast in my own experience, the idea of how it could be is SO much better than the realization that it is a passing thing. make sense? It took me awhile to come to that conclusion.
Yes, that does make sense. Stinks that the idea almost never becomes the actuality. And that your mind spends too much time thinking of the idea of so-and-so for it to never come to pass.