for every person that marries "The One", there are 5 that felt that way until she(or even he) got dumped by that one. Not that i'm not saying it can't happen on the first try, but that experience helps.
Especially because you don't know the person right away, so you can't just know they are TO right away. So some time has to be taken. Knowing the person and how they react to things and people helps. I think you can be older and then get to know someone and know they are the one.
This all being said, i think it is great when you feel you have found TO, and i have never personally tried to dissuade anyone that has told me because i know that feeling..
And I think the last and only true 'One' was Eve, cuz she was created specifically for Adam, and we see how well that turned out. So i think since then there has been no true one. Oh except maybe for Isaac and Rebekah..
and me and your mother
Am I the only one that thought how her father tried to swindel Isaac was just jacked up on soo many levels? I mean this guy REALLY loved her and he went that extra mile but...I think there was a point where any ordinary man wouldda pummled his face.
how did bethuel try to swindle isaac? i thought that was a smooth deal.
My bad I'm thinking of Jacob being swindled by Laban for Rachel...the whole trade off with Leah when he should've got Rachel to begin with. I know it worked out but really burns my biscuts just the same.