I don't really think that there is "ONE" person for everyone. I think there are several people that you could be with, be happy with, etc. I mean there's lots of marriages that people were convinced this was THE ONE and then it's over a year later. Or.. you meet someone, at first you think they are totaly not for you, and you get married a year later.

I think this is just very complicated.

And I also think everyone deserves to have that ONE love of their life, that love that makes you crazy and makes you absolutely lose all control for that person. (and i don't mean lose control as in, do wrong things, i mean like you are so deeply madly in love that you would do anything FOR them)

I think "the one" is someone who you fall deeply, madly, crazily in love with. And they feel the same way about you. And if you're really fortunate, you stay in love like that, year after year. It just gets better. :)