lol! yeah, i've been practicing in my head what i would say and i'm trying to make it NOT like that. I don't want to sound like a retard and BLOW IT! I guess i will have to discern where to slip it in should she ever call.
i wouldn't say that right away because she'd think you're a freak. you could say that you helped him because you'd want someone to do the same for you if you were in his circumstances.