Your not unreasonable. I can relate. :) When making a decision like this always think of what it will look like in 10 years. When you look back at your pictures you want to say wow, we looked good...not wow, we looked so 80's. Pick something classic, that doesn't go out of style. I think the tuxes katie picked out are classic and very nice. Sometimes I talk but when i type it doesn't make any sense. It makes complete sense to me, but does that make sense to you guys?