i don't get why he's making such a big deal of it when he's not religious anyway. maybe you could (tactfully) explain to him why christening and infant baptism are contrary to bible teachings and ask him why he would even want to do that in the first place
That is kinda what i was thinking-if he's not religious, why is he even baptizing the baby? it has to be based on some belief that you obviously don't agree with. and going to the KH for your wedding made him uncomfortable-probably wasn't necessarily bc of the same reasons YOU are uncomfortable. Maybe it's b/c he's not religious or whatever and it creeps him out-whatever. You have a solid reason for being uncomfortable.