assuming they are both comparable in spirituality, maturity, etc, the question is-are you the love of either of their lives? someone on here this week said 'everyone deserves to be the love of someone's life' -its true for you too. where are they at with you?
Assuming they are in the same place with regard to feelings for you, then you really do have to seriously sit down and think about, and PRAY about your goals and what you truly want in life. You don't want to regret marrying someone with whom you are not traveling in the same direction
ah good point good point
Yes, definitely a good point. Ok, so you said you could go either way: gilead or children. These two girls in the picture or not, you have to decide for youself which way you want to go. Perhaps, once you figure that out, you'll take your head out of your hands, look up, and see her. You can't make a life decision like this without knowing for sure where you want your life to go from here. Someone once admitted to me he was looking at other girls besides me. At the time, I saw his honesty. Great, thanks. But then I saw a waivering boy who didn't know what he wanted. Better to figure you out first and then act or else you run the risk of hurting people.