yeah, you know what man, the feelings rush back .... but i have a tried and true slogan ... some of you will think it's wrong but it always works ... "nothing helps you get over the last one like the next one". And it's true - being out there, doing your own thing, working on making yourself more interesting and cultured, focusing on getting better at the things you need to work on - that's the best way.
you're an animal
lol.
Brian, how do you mean this?
being happy and content and confident makes you more interesting.
lol, at first i kind of thought he meant to get with somebody else and you'll forget about the other person.
cuz i dont know if that's a really healthy thing to do
thats how i took it too....hmmm, superhero clarify....please.
my motto is: "if you're not happy by yourself, you'll never be happy with anybody else"
meaning, while a deep relationship with somebody can make you happy, if you're an unhappy person you shouldn't ever think that being with somebody is just going to SNAP make you happy all of a sudden.
no, it doens't have to be a person. it can be anything - as long as you're moving on to something else to occupy your thoughts.
everyone else - stop reading things the wrong way.
acceptance, then void, then fill the void
yea i have to agree with superhero, and really only based on the fact that I have TOTALLY been where you've been Matt. It is like being held prisoner of sorts - but what Dan is saying is that, if you move on to the next thing, not the next person persay... but you put the energy you expend on the the prisonership in to something else. And then slowly you really do move on and completely grow as a person.
sometimes, i feel like i finally have a defense lawyer here on ezabel. it's a wonderful thing. :)
luv is blind :P
anytime - I happen to speak Superhero quite fluently. :)