oh my goodness how annoying is that?!!?!?!?! i am really young for people to start to be saying this to me? it just makes me feel like, oh you dont think im a good enough person by myself. do i need someone else right now? let me do something by myself first. this and when other people ask young couples when they are having kids. THAT'S TOTALLY THEIR BUSINESS!! we've had talks about this!! ugh. such a pet peeve.
Who's saying that to you?! I kill 'em!
There's a few people in our hall who've asked if we're gonna have kids, and my usual response is that if they knew me well enough to ask me that question, they'd already know the answer; and if they don't know the answer, then they don't know me well enough to ask. I've only had to say that to a few people because of the degree of snottiness. It works.
but then, how will they GET to know you if they don't ask?