i am going to try and restrain myself from copying everyones comments i agree with but this is the best one:
The worst is when somebody feels that they're not happy now, but they think that getting married will make them happy. ... For me, I would rather not date at all than date the wrong person.
the worst is when someone is unhappy, period. i dont think getting married randomly makes anyone happier but i do know people who are happier bc they are married to the right person for them and they got married for right reasons.
that said, i personally would far rather be single indefinitely than link up with the wrong person. i am reasonably content alone and dont want to swap that for anything.