this is when somebody quotes the YPA book haha....i definitely have guys as just friends-but the truth is, in most cases, if you have a friend of the opposite sex you find something about them attractive. admit it...to yourself at least.
nah, I dont agree with this AT ALL, i can see how it "can" (can meaning, if your ridiculous) be a danger but it also is completely possible to have an opposite sex best friendship!!
i didn't say it was impossible
true, but im just saying, it is made out like it is an impossible situation to have!
i think u have to have friends of both sexes just to be well rounded...but u can't be alone together.
i duno about that, cause there were numurous times me and dean would go on day trips and it was nothin , nada, pure friendship!
let's just call it a general rule...but not always the case
true true
dean rhys. not me. let's be clear on this.
I used to hang out with Jjonathan alone all the time and we were cool with each other, but looking back now, I think we would have done things differently. We were just too slow to figure out that people would have a problem with it - I could see why, too.
I have to agree with you on this, Forreste... it may be something you find initially attractive, but then that feeling mellows as time goes on and you find that attraction, balanced with the person's other qualities, turns to friendship.