wow. how would you know? jk but seriously. i agree. sometimes even if things didn't end badly you gotta chuck some stuff because it's painful to have around. clean up your environment for a positive change, so that memories don't leave you in the dumps or craving an impossible renewal. theres a balance. sadly most people aren't balanced--after a relationship who's REALLY feeling balanced? i know most people will either keep it all or chuck it all. few people even care balance it.