When people set dumb standards*, standards that if they hadn't set (being very closed minded) they could've already been settled... Does this mean subconciously they don't want to settle down???
If one sets their mind on one person in particular and begins compairing everyone else to the idea of what they think that person represents no one is ever going to be good enough. And then suppose they get close to their "dream somebody" and they're not at all what was imagined... It was then all a waste of time and now one has to start from scratch
sucks 2 b them. On the other hand HA! u whipped starstruck fool thought you were smarter than this
*petty superficial things... placing all their eggs in one basket w/ regards to one person they know nothing about like, what they know is "a duh, der sure purdy "
i think it just means they are young and inexperienced...
This is why I always wanted Jesse Hughes to fall in love with some girl that was very out-of-shape and not really pretty at all (because his standard was Jessica Alba for a while). Unfortunately, that didn't work out cause Sarah is awesome and pretty. Oh well.
Hahaha! it's not that we don't all have a right to our personal preference, it's to what degree it goes...will one pass up a perfectly amazing person because they don' perfectly fit some puffed up ideal.
then again, what could be perfect to you may not be to that person.
It's one of those things where it becomes a game... they see person X, person X is obviously attractive to anyone general. Maybe they would've thought they were attractive on their own, even looked that way once or twice. Only now every tom, dick, and sally start flappin' about how person X is such a catch...There in lies the hook! NOW ,there's a target they MUST land them. Maybe it wasn't what or who they were looking for but, since everyone will think they did so great for themselves, why not go for it? Yes it's very suspect reasoning but, as you can tell I'm a firsthand witness to it.
***BOTTOM LINE***
People are imperfect, do really dumb things, and have extremely impaired reasoning skills. What can you do but, hope they don't end up hurt and disappointed? =/
Jesse Hughes?! that's the name of the lead singer from the Eagles of Death Metal! Jesse 'the devil' Hughes!
http://www.eaglesofdeathmetal.digitalsol.com/Gallery/Jesse01.jpg
Hmm..that perhaps is our Jesse is disguise as a 30-something year old very white male with tattoos..and also a magic device that makes him lose 100 pounds.