Sorry, I will endeavor to be more articulate in the future. It is not just you!

I have a bad habit thinking everone has a the same frame of reference.

I could be totally wrong but after reading, so, so many posts here they seem to be blending all together.

So what I was trying to reference was.. I was under the impression that, I thought your brother once said that you had 'this thing'.... Where he or you would say 'what would you do if you were named..[insert a particular name here]...' And the answer would be like 'taking a steaming deuce, in the middle of the street'

BUT since I hear cricket's, nobody understood, c'est la vie!