one positive thing i can say is that recently a friend of a friend of mine has come back into the truth after a couple years of being inactive/worldly

and she realized the world has NOTHING to offer after living in it and doing all those things she thought she was missing out on, she said she has everything she wants and everything she ever wanted in life, and she's not happy, because she doesn't have Jehovah

and now she is back and regrets wasting all that time

so you never know