It's sad though becuase you can some times see who will stay married and who will not. & when it does it is still a shock but it's also like yeah i kinda saw that happening..
This is funny,
A sister a while ago says to me at an assembly it is so good to see you and brandon doing so well together and yada yada,gives me this great big hug, and staying in jehovah's orginization yada yada,, meanwhile this sister knew brandon for quite some time. & he's not a bad kid, & neither am I
SO i am like what? haha what made you think we wouldn't be together.
She says I duno i just, someone had said something to me, and i didn't think you would be good, and yada yada,
So i am just looking at her like ookkayy.
Come to find out a relative, VERY close relative I wont mention who , had mentioned to this sister what she thought about me and brandon and that i am not good, and that we shouldn't be married yada YADA..
it was shocking and not at the same time becuase of who it came from , it was more of an expected shock.
Wow! Family stinks. haha.. I lived with my family for 2+ years after my marriage broke up. They have a way of telling you how it is. Now being away from them is more refreshing. People need to learn not to speak their inner monologue.
It is a really good thing i am not a sensitive person cause this person Really could have hurt my feelings with something like this. but instead i kind of had a feeling she was telling people this anway so this basically just confirmed it. ha ha but honestly if you all knew this person it wouldn't be shocking either.
at least you can prove to her that she is wrong. haha
The person should also remember that gossiping can hurt.
yeah, i hate when people gossip. its very hurtful.