So, Tyler's getting picked on at school by this little bratty kid. I have to go do the mom thing and talk to his teacher when I drop him off. This is one of the "not fun" parts of being a parent.
if that were my kid i'd so go and pick him up and trip the little booger thats bothering my kid . LOL *jk*
Hahahah, I SO want to give this kid a good spanking. Tyler is "sick" because he doesn't want to go. This kid has some issues....every day I hear from him or the teacher that there was something going on involving this kid. He seriously needs help, no joke.
umm, so just an observation.. You tell alot about you child, like everyhting that is going on. In a few years this may really bother him that you were sharing "personal information" with relatively strangers. I know i would freak if I knew my mom was talking to "random people" about what was going on in my life... I am just saying...
(let the crazy reply's begin)
mom's always brag or say whats going on in their childrens lives....its what being a parents all about. your mom probably shared quite a few stories about you when you were a kid...its a given.
I don't see it as sharing information with strangers...I consider you all friends, not "random people". It's more or less a way of venting for me, and sometimes trying to get advice. Tyler will never be on this site, and I tell you all these things knowing that, if ever any of you all were to meet him, you wouldn't just blurt out things like "So your mom told me you were being bullied."
hmm if i may chime in... real quick... we all share a measure of personal stuff on here, and i know i do it too but just remember this is a public site that anyone can go on and read all this personal info you're sharing, just be careful that's all! I know I use this place to vent and so do a lot of people but it is the internet, it's public, and sharing a lot of detail may not be the best idea - that's all.
Having said that, i'm sorry you're going through a rough time, moving is one of the most stressful things in life, it's actually on top of the list! So it's a lot of adjustment, and a lot to deal with. I can understand that you need to vent.
Yeah, I agree....I try not to share the things I wouldn't want people to know about me or my family, the personal stuff. And the bigger venting, I try to saeve for the ez messages, hahaha.
Little information about Tyler though, I don't see as a big deal...now obviously if he were a teenagre dealing with a bigger issue, I'd see the point in keeping things like that quiet. But things like this, kids deal with. Part of me, in telling about the bully issue, was hoping someone might be able to offer some insight on the whole thing. Outside perspective always helps me, and you guys haven't let me down yet when I needed it, haha.
I appreciate you understanding my stress....I'm doing ok, mostly....just seem to be praying a lot more than usual, haha.
my observation is that you put videos of yourself on here in your jeep ... what if your jeep gets an internet connection in a year or two and gets all upset because there are pictures of it online?
haha, we had a chat the other day i told him what I do he was taken back he says you could have atleast prepared me so i could look my best for the camera, & so I said next time I will let you know. & If I post it for people to see, I will let you know, he says to me, ahh what a wonderfull life i lead especially after i have a whole new engine to put around with your so good to me stef don't ever leave me.
True Story... (haha)
But seriously though....I'm meeting with his teacher this afternoon, to let her know about how this is affecting Tyler. We've told him how to act with it all, to tell a teacher, to walk away when this kid tries to hurt him (yes, this kid's done that too), and I can see it affecting Tyler. He doesn't want to go to school, he was "sick" today, when he woke up, he's angry and stressed when he comes home, and he's sad and sometimes cries about school. I'd like to go into the meeting with her, having some sort of suggestion as to what to do. She's aware this kid is a bully and that he has problems....the second day of school, he had to be removed from class for an angry outburst, and he freked out.
I've never had to deal with bullies much, so I've given him all the advice I have....anyone have anything else that might help?
Awwwwww. I just saw this it'd break my heart if someone picked on my baby.