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brothermanOG 2004

Uh, here's a hint...Tell her who you are and that you don't hang out with worldly girls. Especially ones trying to get down your pants.

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

lol have you ever tried to say it just like that? id like to see how that one would work... especially with a girl that you have to WORK with...

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brothermanOG 2004

I did that with someone at my job. She wanted me and I explained my stand. She made fun of me, but I still talk to her and have a professional relationship with her. So it's not as hard as you think.

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alexOG 2001

eww! she wanted you?

nast!

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brothermanOG 2004

I'm gonna twist you into a pretzel. Haha...

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

same here. well some of the girls let me know so and so was interested and i said "well he's def an awesome guy but i dont date outside of my religion" it totally works and its not that bad of a letdown cause you let the person know they are attractive and you'd consider BUT you wouldnt on the fact that you date within your religion.

this has helped with the other guys too cause word spread that i only date within my religion so i dont have to worry about the others.

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alexOG 2001

yeah, easier said than done, dude.

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monsterEst. 2006

I am with bro man on this one.... though perhaps not so curt. It is a plus, plus, if it works as intended you'll quash her hopes and leave you free, if it doesn't, every time you bump into her and make a new point...an RV to count. :D

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

I disagree. We're the only religion that believes in dating people inside our own congregations, worldly people don't understand that and I've had a few guys who've considered it a challenge.

Just say you're really busy and you're not interested in dating anyone or spending time away from the friends you already don't see enough of.

(This girl sounds completely psycho, btw.)

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

shes just very interested... shes like any other girl right outta highschool... you make a good point.. just let her down easy lex... you heart throb...

iwz iwz

lots of religious people will only date/marry inside their own faith.

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

Yeah, you're right, I should've said "one of the few". My bad.

flyingfree1125 flyingfree1125OG 2001

that challenging thing happened to me to. This guy asked me out i said very clearly mulitple times no, that i dont date out of my religion however he persists in telling people we are dating and molesting me in the hallway like we are dating. he says he thinks he can break me down.. i think hes just out of his mind.

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