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jp jpOG 2003

i gotta say...a lot of it is me. probably a lot of the reason i havent found someone i want to marry is that i guess i dont want to settle down. im only 21. but a lot of people in the truth decide to get married early, which is good for them, but i don't think im ready. so im not saying that none of the girls i know are worthy or something. i'm not THAT stuck up, sheesh. haha.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

smart boy! get married when you're ready deep down in your heart! my personal opinion is 21 IS too young to get married...as you start to grow you realize you're no longer the same person at 25 as you were at 21. I'm seeing WAY too many marriages around me fall apart because of this. So be wise and get married until you're SOOO READY, SOO IN LOVE, and not just cause you love the person BUT really IN love.

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brothermanOG 2004

You ain't missing anything. Love is for the birds.

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

Maybe poor relationships are for the birds - true love is a gift from Jehovah.

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brothermanOG 2004

A relationship only becomes poor when we let it get that way. We could love any number of people out there. True love in my mind is when two people know how to put the work in to keep it a loving relationship. It has nothing to do with so-called chemistry. Chemistry brings you together. After that you work hard to keep it together.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

word

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

Biblical love is based on principles as well as affection - that's what I'm talking about.

jp jpOG 2003

good call. i think it will be tough to distinguish what it will be like when the chemistry ends.

specialk specialkOG 2003

I'll drink to that!!!!

originalsnob originalsnobOG 2004

CHIRP CHIRP lol

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