don't listen to any of these fools, jp. everyone knows that marriage has nothing to do with "love". marriage is all about GETTIN' IT ON!!! WHOOOOOEEEE!!!
for this reason i'd love to have a simple quick ceremony and then plan a big party for later like a normal wedding months later so that nobody could make those annoying jokes or winks for months on...
that's awful. you shouldn't feel guilty for having...you know...after you're married.
People need to mind their own business anyway.
I knew someone who got treated lousy by some because he and his girlfriend took each of their kids out for ice cream without anyone else being with them. Apparently someone in the congregation bumped into them. Uh...What are they gonna do with kids all around them? People are just silly.