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alex Nov 3, 2006

don't listen to any of these fools, jp. everyone knows that marriage has nothing to do with "love". marriage is all about GETTIN' IT ON!!! WHOOOOOEEEE!!!

malibu Nov 6, 2006

for this reason i'd love to have a simple quick ceremony and then plan a big party for later like a normal wedding months later so that nobody could make those annoying jokes or winks for months on...

specialk Nov 7, 2006

Since we're on this topic, I have to ask.....did any of you other married folks (or friends of married folks, did you hear about this ever) feel like you were gonna get in trouble when you left you...

socalgal Nov 8, 2006

my best friend felt so guilty she said....she said after she returned from her honeymoon she felt like every time the phone rang she thought it was going to be one of her elders...LOL

alex Nov 8, 2006

that's awful. you shouldn't feel guilty for having...you know...after you're married.

socalgal Nov 8, 2006

its lighthearted. its cause when you date for that period of time, then all of a sudden you're alone...its understood how they can feel guilty. LOL

jp Nov 8, 2006

wait...you dont need chaperones once your married?

socalgal Nov 8, 2006

um, no you dont need chaperone's once your married. unless you do it differently on the east coast. LOL

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brothermanOG 2004

Besides if you are not married yet, you don't need a chaperone if you take separate cars and meet in a public place. How can you ever show any sort of affection or talk about personal things if you have people breathing down your neck every second? At least that is my take on the matter. I remember hearing a talk awhile back that talked about this as well.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

some still talk against this too tho. with my last bf, we'd meet somewhere totally public would have a few peeps make drama. so lame.

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brothermanOG 2004

People will talk no matter what. I don't care. If I know I am doing the right thing, then it doesn't matter what peeps say. We must fear Jehovah, not men. Those people are gossiping and disobeying a different type of counsel.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

oh believe me, im the same way. and i did tell those peeps what i thought....tactfully of course

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brothermanOG 2004

You are awesome. ;o) People annoy me.

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