this is a little silly...you're saying if you have a creative kid's name, you're being selfish. and i think kid's are a HUGE deal...it compeletely alters your life and there is this new person that 100% relies on you.

i get what you're saying that there are so many kids that need to be adopted and people continually have their own kids...but it is a very rare person that would give up having their own child to care for someone else's child.

my sister-in-law wants to adopt a child...and what she said was that she doesn't want to bring a child into a world like this, but if she can help a child that is already here..she would do that. but they've already been married for 7 years w/ no talk of kids...so looks like i won't be an aunt for a while.