I think we all missed the point where he said, "In my mind..." This is the way he views it. Some people who are sans children may feel the exact opposite. And we all have it tough, but i bet he has it as tough as anyone. I respect the fact that he is responsible for the life (now and eternally) of other human beings. This is infinitely better than the parents i've seen who say don't have kids and they wish they didn't.

That being said, the statement is not without its faults. ONE person getting DF'd is too many, so the problem clearly does not lie with being married or having children or not. Statistics aside, this will remain a fact until I read a scripture otherwise. I have a couple in my hall that had a kid then split before they got married (neither baptized). I have a man in my hall that left his wife and children and got df'd. I have a man in my hall who was not married and got df'd.