I hope none of you kidless people take offense, but I think a lot of you are in lala land. Having kids opens your eyes a bit wider to what is going on in this world. While I respect anyones decis...

i guess some people need that kick in the pants and some people don't

do you mean that you think his circumstances "opened his eyes" because they weren't opened when he entered the situation? i don't get what you mean.

i meant that i'm sure having kids does help some people mature, then again i'm sure there are others who it doesn't help, and only hurts the kids. and others don't need this dose of reality