Just because you're getting married doesn't mean you will be a different person. You do what you LOVE to do, sharing your life with someone won't change that. Sure it's important to make your husband happy, but if you give up yourself in the process, the marriage will suffer. Sure, there will emerge a new "you" as half of a couple, but neither of you should give up your individuality, that's what drew you together, that's what will make you strong. Learn to love what each other loves, don't be resentfull, encourage each other to pursue their dreams. I wish someone had explained this to me.