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katiedid by katiedid · Feb 18, 2003 · Ask eZabel · 383 views

Katie O. Radio Katie S. Radio(?)

A few days ago, Mike asked me a question unexpected from him. "Are you still gonna DJ when we're married?"

Honestly, I just assumed I would. I know it would be hard balancing work, meetings, household chores, etc., but I never really thought I would just up and leave. I mean, this is what Mike thought was so cool about me; what most people find interesting in my not-so-extraordinary life.

I think WNTI would keep me as long as I wanted to stay, but is now the right time to leave? Should I mark the marriage milestone with another? *ponders* :)

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48 Comments

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

yo, i only caught the radio show for the first time a couple of weeks ago. (i always had dialup before). it's pretty freakin cool. but, I think that you should arrange for me to take over. cause that'd be a sweet job. also, ian, you gotta make it so the reminder on the front page of ezabel stays till her show is over, NOT when it begins...b/c by the time 10pm rolls around, it's not on the site anymore, and i've forgotten...

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

It changes and says that the program is currently live!

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

yeah sure it changes NOW THAT I SUGGESTED IT!!

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

Do what you want... if you like doing the show, keep doing it. The big question is if Mike is still going to be in the band after you get married...

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

Just realized... you can keep it as Katie-O since your new name Katie Schiano ends with the letter "o"

whoknows whoknowsOG 2003

Huh. Interesting! There is a pizza place around here that is like, it's gotta be two pizza places in one, or something, because there are two signs. It's "Schiano- DeGasperi"... haha.. AND you should not quit the show, I agree with I think beachbum said see how it is after the wedding and then see if you can keep up. You should be able to, because really the only difference between dating and marriage is you live together... (it's a huge difference i know.. blah) and you should still be (time-wise) able to do the things like to do now.

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

my family actually does own a pizza place... its in hackettstown, but its kinda distant family which means i dont get any freebies.... stinks

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

my cousins used to have a hot dog joint. when you have family in business work the connection!

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

I wish i could... they have good food too!

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

mmm i dont eat hot dogs but id go for pizza!

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002

let's go!  

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

ay oh let's go!

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003 forrestina

ezabel pizza party!!!

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 hunkpapap

ill make biscotti for dessert!

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002 forrestina

what is the biscotti obsession??

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 skaorsk8

it's molto bene!!

deanh77 deanh77Founder forrestina

wait! are you italian or something?!

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 deanh77

you know it baby!

deanh77 deanh77Founder forrestina

no way!

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 deanh77

i do have a sense of humor thanks

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder forrestina

Italian girls are the HOTTEST!, well besides the Irish light skinned ones...

katiedid katiedidFounder rocksupastar

haha, obviously (from my name) I'm a little bit Italian, but I'll be sure to keep you away from Tina and Jahanna. I like light skinned Irish guys, so you better watch out.....

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder katiedid

well of course, EVERYONE knows tina and jahanna is hot...

magnum magnumOG 2001 rocksupastar

what bout me!? im italian and umm sortya hot, u dont love me anymore?

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder magnum

of course, no contest, you are the sexiest one of them all!

katiedid katiedidFounder rocksupastar

they've become one? ("is hot")

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder katiedid

well they always have been one... lol

tesoro tesoroOG 2001 rocksupastar

hahahhahahhahha!!!!!!! i read that & was like, "we IS hot"? hahaha, we're one, thats so funny.

tesoro tesoroOG 2001 forrestina

hahaha, me and giac used to drive alota people crazy by always writing in Italian...possiamo continuare! :) haha

deanh77 deanh77Founder tesoro

I tried to learn italian, but all I can remember is "ti adoro angelo mio" and "culo grosso"

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 tesoro

we can't really continue cus i dont know italian...only a teensy bit. now spanish i could probably handle better.

tesoro tesoroOG 2001 forrestina

haha, dag it! :)

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002 tesoro

lol...know what a dag is?

tesoro tesoroOG 2001 ok4now

i do not, i'm guessing something along the lines of dagger? i dunno, what?

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002 tesoro

i found a book in my school library with slang words...i think dag was the name for the fur on the back of a sheep that gets all crudded up with dry crap that gets stuck in the fur...rn't u glad u asked?

tesoro tesoroOG 2001 ok4now

sheep dont have fur, its called wool. haha, fur. i suppose you think we have fur too?

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002 tesoro

//aaatever...yeah, wool isn't furry, right?

magnum magnumOG 2001

yo ill go over there and lay the smack down and get us some free stuff

F
felipeFounder

Just because you're getting married doesn't mean you will be a different person. You do what you LOVE to do, sharing your life with someone won't change that. Sure it's important to make your husband happy, but if you give up yourself in the process, the marriage will suffer. Sure, there will emerge a new "you" as half of a couple, but neither of you should give up your individuality, that's what drew you together, that's what will make you strong. Learn to love what each other loves, don't be resentfull, encourage each other to pursue their dreams. I wish someone had explained this to me.

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

Good points Felipe.... something I'm keeping in mind for wife number two when the time comes...

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

you won't know if you'll be able to handle it until you are there. give it a chance once you're married and decide then if it is too much for you. don't ever quit being a cool chick. :)

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

I agree with David; if you quit the radio show, he should quit the band. Also, tell him you will leave the show if you guys can go to Stanhope. ;)

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

HEY!!! I didn't say all that!!!! :-o I'm wondering now, too if Mike wants Katie to give up the show or if he was just wondering if she would...

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

no no no.. i dont want her to quit the show, i think its awesome that she does it. I was just wondering what she was going to do, thats all. And no di... we arent going to go to your LAME hall anyways.. kidding kidding... I cant say i will stay with the band forever and ever, cause i dont know, i have never been married before, it might be too hard to stay involved with the band, i dont know. Right now im worried about a job, SOMEONE HELP ME FIND A JOB!

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

I love ya, Mikey! But you better stay with the band for a while... I think I need a new job, too... something that will keep me pioneering....

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002

i think it's kewl that mike's smart enough to ask these questions NOW. it gives u both time to think it over, talk it over, and decide together.

delliott101 delliott101OG 2002

Hey Katie, I love the logo redux!

katiedid katiedidFounder

haha, good job, Dave!

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