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juicymango Jul 11, 2007

there are a couple single girls in my hall but they are like.. age 17-20. Meaning they will all be married within like the next year so .. hurry up if you wanna meet any of them. haha

malibu Jul 11, 2007

it is a very weird feeling when going out that most all the girls i know are married. i thought it was just me.

brotherman Jul 11, 2007

That's ok, half of them will probably get divorced. That seems to be the trend with people who get married at 21 or younger.

alex Jul 12, 2007

*gasp* that's an awful thing to say. but kind of true.

brotherman Jul 12, 2007

No reason to sugar coat it, ya know. I'm going to instill in my kids to wait. They'll have my real life example to look at, what I had to go through, to see that being 19 or 20 is a ridiculous ag...

alex Jul 12, 2007

i agree. i think it is sensible to wait. i mean, you change so much in those years between 18 and 25 or 26. plus who wants to be married any way. especially at 18. those are the golden years. you s...

socalgal Jul 12, 2007

haha this is totally true. who wants to be tied down at such a young age. about 90% of the ones that were married at 21 or before (in my area) are already divorced...its really sad. you really do...

brotherman Jul 12, 2007

The funny thing is, you'd think parents would be telling their kids these things so as to avoid getting married so young. My parents didn't communicate with us, so its no wonder my family is dysfu...

socalgal Jul 12, 2007

but thats the thing, most parents dont. then again you have the stubborn few who think they're in love and get married anyway too. like i know out here the majority of my friends, their parents,...

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brothermanOG 2004

I think there needs to be more talks from the platform about this issue. It's an increasing problem. It shouldn't be encouraged anywhere to marry too young. That is ridiculous. But you are right, some parents do talk to their kids and they should be commended. At least they tried.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

theres been PLENTY of talks and articles....esp the newest ones to make sure of WHO you are marrying...etc. if ones dont want to take the advice, they suffer and reap what has been sown cause of their stubbornness or immaturity.

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