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socalgal socalgalOG 2003

the radio station i listen too, they're talking about men being harassed at work and think they get harassed more so than us females. i dont know...i think guys like the attention more...what do you guys think?

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

isnt that that book... um... Michael Crichton : Disclosure or whatever. Thats what it was about, boss took advantage of a guy and nobody believed him, cause 90% of all sexual harrasment cases in a workplace are from females.

i could see guys not complaining about it or maybe afraid nobody would believe them.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

i came across that book unpacking some stuff yesterday

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

i cant find mine... YOU PROBABLY STOLE IT!!!!!!

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

you might be right actually...

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

dood.... i hate you.

actually that book made me so angry... i hated that chick.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

oh i dont know if its the book. they were talking bout guys and harassment in the workplace....or maybe they were and i just didnt pay attention to that part.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

this reminds me of a bit of chris rock comedy from a few years ago....

anyway, see now...

harassment in this day and age is, in a funny way, reversed. in the old days, girls were harassed by men constantly because they knew there wasn't anything the gals could do about it. nowadays, with anti-harassment laws, some guys are hesitant to even compliment a girl. while the harassment laws aren't gender specific, guys would be very hesitant to say they were harassed and made to feel like a piece of meat by a woman. in fact, some guys feel they should see it as the ultimate compliment to be treated that way, lol. what i mean is, some dudes see the harassment as flattery and personal validation and would possibly feel like less of a man if they admitted to feeling threatened and uncomfortable by a woman to the point of reporting her. it's a funny situation.

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