1- Substitute prospective for perspective =0P
2- FYI Married male perspective equally valuable
3- Almost forgot to ask:

If there is a female who is NOT romantically interested in a guy- *FACT* but, has a sweet, yet non flirtatious, and outgoing personality what part of that translates in the MALE MIND to "SHE WANTS ME"??? Is it only because you are not familiar with her OR is it because you think VERY HIGHLY of yourself???

I have definitely heard the good ole' ratio excuse. BIG DEAL there are more sisters than brothers. The truth is no matter how much a sister (in full control of her faculties) might want companionship, a lot of these bros (with the maaad confidence and zero or lacking personality) have NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT because they are just plain FUGLY! If I have to wake up next to you I do NOT want to do it screaming, GET OVER YOURSELF!

I am a simple girl, true story. I reason that there is always someone "bigger and better" that way I am rarely disappointed. I have never competed with another woman/female for anything in my life and have ZERO intention of doing so moving forward.

It might sound extreme however every once in a while I must deal with one of these "winners". It can be a bit of a burden to PROVE that you are a "neutral player" when you're simply trying to enjoy your surroundings. Unfortunately I'm referring to:
-Grown men 25+
-Lacking personality, tact, or looks

{FINAL NOTE}I would think it was an individual observation but, I have several different girlfriends from different places and backgrounds that have all experienced what I am referring to AND at least two of them are several years my senior.

*insight?*