what you could do is go with the old reliable...ya know... the christian politically correct answer...." Your very nice..." that right there is a clear indication that you don't like them... and if she needs more... tell her that your really not interested in dating anyone at this time..you dont feel its the right time...
so let me get this straight, your opinion is not to lead them on and use them for attention? Ok, just checking...
it called getting to know them .....................................................................(HI my name is Pat... nice to meet you.... i love you wanna go out with me and add to my psycho ex girlfriend legacy)