Well i think we all have to go through that at some time,

but as for me, well... Ive been asking myself that question for a long time. I feel depending on the type of person you are, you will

inadvertantly atract the type of girl or guy that you want. And if that is the case, you need to be keen enough and pay attention enough to pick him or her out. you might not see it right away, but then all of a sudden you are head over heals. but bear in mind that you can guess wrong every now and then, but dont let that discourage you at all! keep looking and if you feel strongly about that person, TELL THEM; you know why? because you may say the right thing that will triger them thinking about you. mabey not that day mabey not the next day. but mabey im crazy i dont know!!!