i don't know if you're just being...passionate or whatever. but you are dead wrong! i love going to shows and seeing new bands. take in songs for the first time. i find that to be one of the most FUN things to experience. especially if you end up loving the band. THAT'S good stuff. but if you're just referring to people who go to shows and just talk and carry and not even pay A LITTLE bit of attention--then, nah, thats not cool.