please, just dont listen to *Captain Jack*.

Why? I enjoy that song.

read the lyrics its about self abuse =(

So..what's wrong with that? It happens.

I really hope that you're kidding here.

Not at all. Self abuse happens, I don't see what the big deal is listening to a song about it. I'm sorry if I'm not overly shocked and horrified by self abuse, that's just life.

i agree. we all abuse ourselves in some way, whether we know it or not. we as imperfect humans are just...wrecked. we'll get better.

I'm not sure that you and thatdarngirl understand what the phrase "self-abuse" means. It's what the YPA book talks about in chapters 25 and 26. If you understand that and are still making these c...

haha. self-abuse isn't exclusively masturbation. we're using a more broad definition. perhaps overeating, maybe cutting, low thoughts of yourself, perhaps even overly high expectations of ones s...

I don't know if you're trying to be funny here or not, but the phrase "self-abuse" very definitely means "masturbation" as you will find if you look in any dictionary, and I do not find joking abou...

we're both right. lets dance, not fight.Main Entry: self-abuse Pronunciation: -&-'byüs Function: noun Date: 1605 1 : reproach of oneself 2 : masturbation 3 : abuse of one's body or health

Okay, so it can mean both, but I have never heard or seen the phrase self-abuse used to mean anything except masturbation, and I am fairly certain that this is what StarshipTrooper meant when she u...