well i think of it this way.. it's not like we celebrate christmas and birthdays.. so when there is an opporunity to party and celebrate and give gifts.. GIVE IT UP. why not. thats all i'm saying

i'm not saying ALL engagement parties, small ones are cool, but i'm talking mainly about the ones that turn into a big deal. it gets out of hand, esp with the million weddings going on. get what i'...

well i agree with the millions of weddings.. but thats just unusual. some weird freaky .. 2 years that everyones deciding to marry.. but a year or 2 from now.. wont be any.