yep! its much easier that way, even tho the big shebang can be fun too.
but theres no way i can afford it for my kids, so it will have to be the small way.
i wish my parents even thought a little of this. whatever i shall endeavor to do whether be college or wedding, i shall be paying for it all by myself because they had to do it for themselves and such i should do the same.
but i understand the whole wedding thing. cuz if you had five daughters would you be looking foward to paying for all of their weddings?