no no no no no. #2 is good. These are not the same LEVEL. IN other words, these are levels of friendships. I would call you a #2 friend...
Well thank you Pat you can be a number 2 for me too! But why is it out of order, because 1 and 3 seem pretty the same?
No i think it is in the right order, the order of importance. The most important type of friend is the #1. The second is the most common. The third is a degree removed. IN other words, someone who is not on eZabel all the time or at all might be aware of it an not opposed. But the don't disapprove of our obsession, so they are friends of Ezabel..
option 1 is a true friend, someone you confide in, and trust in. They help you when you need help, and even when you don't.
option 3 is more like our christian brotherhood. You don't know them well, but they are on your side, and will help you.
however that doesn't mean you couldn't confide in me. I'm not telling you to, because i think that you should try out a #2 friend for a while before you turn them into a #1 friend. But lately i've been finding #2's trying to make the jump and it truly is hard having many. Because they deserve your time and you want to give it to them....
Interesting..I never thought of it that way. I always wanted lots and lots of #1 friends, but maybe that's not the best idea. Hmm.
So yay I can confide in you!!! So..when I was 5 I was in preschool and my best friend lived next door and then she moved when I was like 10 and that made me really sad. ANd when I was in 6th grade I got really sick and I was never in school so all my friends stopped being my friends and I hate them and that's why I'm crazy..and I used to live in africa and wear only bear skin tunics...and my fingers are cold so I have to go run hott water on them but I'll be back in a few mintues to tell you more.
you are definitely a vault and a confidant.
I know that and some people like you know that (you're pretty confideable yourself), but i'm saying in general don't do it as a rule. I mean there are some where it's ok, but it's hard to tell who will tell everything and who will keep it to themselves and who really will give good advice.....
and sometimes a good friend won't give advice. they will just make you laugh and feel better....
that's true...i'm not good with the advice. i'm a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, and a heart to laugh with (i was trying to think of a way to put that last bit lol)
Yeah!! But sometimes you don't even want advice so that's even better you just needed to get it all out. I always feel like I should know what to say, but I rarely do so laughter works.