i do agree with everything you said..but it's kind of hard sometimes NOT to act or feel a certain way even though we know it might be out of line. i think thats why the guy has to know the girl (vice versa also)..so when she freaks out about something..it's just because of natural insecurities that can be fixed by him saying something reassuring. (relating to 1,2 & 5 mostly)
ahh but they can not always be fixed by your suggested method!
yeah, very very true...if a guy knows the girl he's with well enough, and the compatibility is genuine & it's & not a relationship based purely on convenience & physical attraction, then lil freak outs & quirks can actually be kinda cute @ times...