a lot of girls want to "fix" guys. many times the jerky ones have problems and she's martyring herself and sticking with it b/c she thinks she can help him and he will actually change and they will skip into the sunset together. in reality those girls need to stop watching soap operas.
those chicks get beat!... you ain't changing a man. unless he's some pu..nked whipped hobo.. from the dirty south. holla.