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forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

Okay I have two cases:
In one, the guy broke up with me and said we'd be friends, but we are not.

In the other, I broke up with the guy and said we'd be friends, and we are.

sugabluejennnie sugabluejennnieOG 2002

But why didnt it last in the first case and did in the second

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

i'm not sure...i was just saying that it's always different

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toxicgirlOG 2003

Yeah, it is different for every relationship (not that I have been in many, cuz I haven't). But, I think it depends on the maturity of the people involved. Even if the one person wants to stay friends, if the other can't handle it, it isn't going to happen. Also, I think it depends on what all went on while the people were dating (and how long). And how much of what went on was told to friends that kinda got spread around. All important factors.

esprit15d esprit15dOG 2003

In regards to the guy who you are not friends with, are y'all not friends anymore because you can't be freinds, or because you just looked up one day and weren't freinds anymore?

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

actually it's because he won't

sugabluejennnie sugabluejennnieOG 2002

OOOO girl he wants all or nothing..

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

ding ding ding we have a winner. that's also why i got dumped.

sugabluejennnie sugabluejennnieOG 2002

Oh thats a shame.. you got dumped.. your in my prayers.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

hahah thanks but i'm okay by now. this was years ago.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

maybe its just because of your point of view. the person that did the breaking up still thinks they are friends?

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

in the case that we are still friends? yes he does.

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